Went to watch it ytd. Well...got a lot of intimidating thoughts throughout the show...

Anyways, the show is about this shrink having a 37 yr old divorcee as her patient....and as the woman after being totally upset about her ex-husband's behaviour of 5 min no hesitation signing the papers, she met a guy. while she was waiting for buying movie tickets. introduced by friends... then the guy actually asked her out the night after they were home. had fun together just to realise this supposedly 'man' she was dating is only 23! yup. yet they loved each other....the shrink was much encouraging her patient to openly try out this new relationship while telling her son to refrain from meeting this woman (which apparently she din know was her patient) because she ain't jewish and the age gap. Eventually the mum cum shrink found out. Then through her struggles with being professional as a shrink yet doing her duty as a mum, went through everything to let them know and finally learnt to accept the relationship, even though the woman was not jewish. the couple, however, struggled with being at different phases of their lives and having different needs. problems with co-habitat also surfaced. Ultimately, she decided to take away the best gift he could ever give: the willingness to learn to understand her needs and to the extent of wanting to meet it.

Well...
Heartache of a mother.... I honestly wouldn't know what to do if I were her... it is indeed unbelieveable to allow your own child to be in such a relationship...
even though she said to her patient:

It's better to live a messy life 'coz at least u know u lived it.

Then...the issues in a relationship. Which well....brings about something which i had convinced myself of... becoming too close too fast... then will be some day where there can nothing to talk about and everything to suspect about... because trust is simply lost. and sleeping around and betrayal can come so soon that it tears apart your very heart.
then also mentioned about religion, which well... let me think alot.

religion is paramount...
paramount: overriding; having superior power and influence

well yah, it influences me to a certain extent..my values and all...
yet, at times i'm rebellious and want to just do something and heck care the consequences...it's very me...very irresponsible...very rash...very rational yet pushing my limits...but it's ME. haiz. But of course I feel guilty. Maybe that's why I still around and living well and not yet struck by lightning.

the ending was kinda sad. they couldn't be together. but they still loved. well..reminded me of what i've said before...are the best things always left uncompleted, undone?
maybe....there's the beauty of not knowing.